Self-Made Wealth

 
I found a couple of his videos very inspiring because they were not only talking about business, but being successful in life.  I hope my notes from these videos make sense.  To view the actual videos, click here
http://blog.selfmadewealth.com

 

Most important ways for me to become more value: 1. Learn more about English language and how to use it properly to connect with more people, 2. Learn more about verbal and non-verbal communication , 3. Marketing – communicate my full story to others, 4. Selling – LEARN HOW to do it genuinely – consultative selling – let me ask you some questions and see if what I have is a fit and sell solutions, 5. Public Speaking- we fear it more than death oftentimes – rejection triggers same pain center that physical pain does – MAKE IT HAPPEN – failure is an idea that humans created – look for the lessons in every failure – when I mess up, tell people as soon as possible and make them feel comfortable finding mistakes – make it a game – Evitability Thinking – set things up so success happens itself instead of trying to make it happen – who can we bring in to help us solve the problems – create the conditions so success will happen automatically – What can I do to make success inevitable? – learn to be good goal-setter and problem-solver both – set up conditions to make sure success happens – accountability partner and give $100 if you don’t show up – focus on large blocks of time -His Productivity Pyramid – 1. No or negative value,2. Low monetary value, 3. High Dollar Per Hour Value, 4. High Lifetime Value (I need to be proactive about) – Look for prospects who are looking for me – Direct Response Marketing (people who give direct response after an interview) –

You are AWESOME!

Caring People

I was listening to K-LOVE again today and heard an inspiring story that I wanted to share.

Recently some grandparents had heard that their 3-year old grandchild was killed by the mother's live-in boyfriend (OK, that's not inspiring - keep reading).  The mother decided to donate the boy's organs to other people who needed it.  The grandfather wanted to be around for moral support and to offer whatever help he could. 

The couple went to the airport 2 hrs early, but still barely made the first plane, for whatever reason.  The grandfather, because of some delayed layovers was about to miss the last plane that got him to his final plane to get to his final destination.  He should have missed his plane.  He arrived at the gate 12 minutes late.  Yet, what he found at the gate shocked him.  He found the gate attendant and the plane still there.  The gate attendant asked, "Are you Mark?" to which the grandfather replied in the affirmative.  "The pilot held the plane for you."  When Mark asked to speak to the pilot (who had apparently heard of the situation), the pilot replied, "The plane wasn't  going to leave without me and I wasn't going to leave without you."

What a great example of how much God loves each and every one of us and how He loves it when we love others as He would.  Thank God for caring people.

You are AWESOME!

Faith

I was listening to K-LOVE again and thinking about my current situation.  Basically, my husband and I made a deal that is running out net week.  I'm stressed out about it, but I also feel calm, like it will be taken care of.  I'm trying to keep that faith going.  Even if I can't pull my end of the bargain, it's sure a whole lot more enjoyable having faith rather than doubt and fear.  Let me know if you have a similar circumstance where you're trying to pull something off that there's no way you can without help (God, family, friends, co-workers, etc.) 

You are AWESOME!

You Wealth Revolution

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 I'm sure if you have been reading my posts, you have noticed that many of the posts are based on You Wealth Revolution.  What is You Wealth Revolution?  It's an interactive series of webinars (seminars on the internet) from some of the top leaders in healing and personal development today.  I have included a list of the speakers on whom I wrote blog posts in the right sidebar, but I will also include them here, at the bottom of the post. In this post, it's just a list, but in the sidebar, you can click on each one

These dates are for 2010, so You Wealth Revolution is over, but not really.  Darius (Barazandeh - one of the speakers and also the host) is continually giving more - either more speakers or more special deals.  You can (until tonight, Dec. 24, 2010) still listen to some of the speakers and take advantage of their amazing deals.  If, however, you read this blog post after tomorrow, you can still take advantage of the sale.  Darius is still selling an MP3 downloadable version (and more - he'll tell you what else) of all of the webinars in the You Wealth Revolution for 2010.  To find out about this deal on the AMAZING webinars I've only given a FRACTION of the information presented, Click here!

There were many topics presented in the You Wealth Revolution webinars - from health, abundance, relationships, success, emotional and physical healing, money to biochemical differences between men and women and letting go of baggage in your life.  There were many that talked about similar methods but had different techniques.  I had heard of some of these things before, but I was amazed at how much I still learned.  These leaders had so much to share and just gave from their hearts.

When I mentioned earlier about this being an interactive webinar, there were two ways it was interactive.  Number one: there were people listening to the call who asked questions and had them answered on the call and number two: there was a Facebook sharing blog for comments and summaries of the calls.  I have added about five Facebook friends and 3 followers on this blog based on You Wealth Revolution.   It was just a way to meet like-minded people. It was actually from You Wealth Revolution that I decided to start this blog.

This is DEFINITELY a life-changing event, if you allow it to be.  Some of the speakers that helped change my life through this event include:

• Darius Barazandeh
• Ellie Drake
• Brent Phillips - Part 1 and Part 2
• Wendy Robbins
• Larry Crane
• John Assaraf
• Carol Look
• Ann Taylor
• Symeon Rodgers
• Rich German 
• Peggy McColl
• Nick Ortner
• T. Harv Eker
• Natalie Ledwell
• Alex Loyd
• Adam King
• Satyen Raja
• Chris Howard
• Scott Martineau
• Bradley Nelson
• Jim Kwik
• Kim Castle
• Sam Crowley
• Armand Morin
• Baeth Davis
• Marci Shimoff
• David Wolfe

You are AWESOME!

Brent Phillips - part two - healing

 This was another call on the You Wealth Revolution set of calls.  This time, he actually used some of his Theta healing techniques to heal those on the call.  He explained on the last call that when he first learned about Theta healing, he learned about it one on one - where one healer is with one patient.  He wanted to do more than that; he wanted to reach out to multiple people at the same time.  Then, he learned about remote Theta healing, so he didn't even have to be in the same room as the person he's trying to heal, so he could do healing on webinars and help multiple people in places he wasn't.

Now that I've set up a little of what he does, let's get down to the healing.  This is paraphrased from the call. 

With Theta, we can bypass the conscious mind with muscle testing.  If you’re familiar with muscle testing, use the method that works best for you.  If not, use the easiest testing he says to learn.  

To do this, stand to the north, feet shoulder distance apart and “zip up your field” before every question.  To zip up your field, start at your root chakra with a hand (doesn't matter which) and act like you’re zipping up a sleeping bag all the way up to your head.  Then, either ask a question or make a statement out loud.  If the answer is yes, you will (most likely) feel your body swaying forward, and for a no, it will sway backward.   To see if it’s working, say out loud “yes” and then “no”.  Do this if you ever feel something a little off to recalibrate.  

The questions he asked and did Theta Healing while on the call are (say out loud): 

1. I know what it feels like to be completely loved (mine was "no" to begin with, which surprised me.  Then I gave him permission to heal me and then the answer was "yes").

2. I know what it feels like to completely love (mine was "yes"). 

3. I know what joy feels like (mine was "yes"). 

4. I know what it feels like to be completely healthy (mine was "no" then "yes" which suprised me because I try to be very healthy). 

5. I know what unconditional love feels like (mine was "yes"). 

6. I know what it feels like to receive or accept a healing (mine was "yes") 

7. I am worthy of the Creator’s love (that took me two tries to get a "yes" which also surprised me, but maybe that's where some blocks are.  I don't know).

If after any question the answer is no, give Brent the permission to heal that (out loud or subconsciously) and then say the statement out loud again and see if it is yes.  You may have to give Brent permission to heal you a few times.  Giving consent for Brent to heal you is absolutely vital because this process only works with consent. 

This was a very interesting process for me and hopefully it will be for you too.

You are AWESOME!

Life

             
I don't know how your life goes, but it seems that every step in my life prepares me for the next step, sortof like the game of Life.  Right now, I keep learning more and more about affiliate marketing.  The more I learn about affiliate marketing, the more I realize I have already learned.  I have been working with a coaching company for the past  several months helping me learn to blog.

There are many steps in this coaching and in each step, it taught me another thing about blogging and how to promote my blog as well as create content rich enough to be ranked higher with Google.  In case you're curious, this is my second blog, and I haven't quite used all the steps I used on that blog yet.  Click here to visit my other blog.

My point in mentioning this is that I have attempted many businesses since then and it seems like everything I do to promote those other blogs/websites comes back to what I learned with this coaching program.  So, it didn't directly help me build a business, but it helped teach me the foundation steps so I can be more successful with other businesses. 

It reminds me a lot of the movie The Karate Kid (or if you prefer the original The Karate Kid Collection (Four Film Set)).  If you're not familiar with the movie, I definitely recommend watching it.  Basically what happens in part of it is this kid wants to learn Karate and this teacher teaches him karate lessons by building a foundation on what he needed to know without the kid being aware that he was learning karate.  I can understand how he felt.  When I started learning about blogging, I was doing all of theses steps that I thought were useless and time-consuming.  I though, "When am I going to start making money?  Why am I doing all of these steps that aren't making me money?"

If you don't want advice, don't read any further.  My advice to anyone who's in a similar boat, feeling like what you're doing isn't giving you the results you want right away, BE PATIENT.  If you're working with mentors who know what they're teaching, trust them and keep following their counsel, even if things are taking a little longer than you'd like.  Also, if you don't understand why others are telling you to do certain things that have worked to help them be successful (in whatever area of life in which they ARE successful), follow and trust anyway.  It will make sense later.

You are AWESOME!

Brent Phillips

                                                           www.thetahealingla.com

 
Highlights:

• You Wealth – realization that wealth comes from within me

• The vast majority of our power is in our subconscious mind

•  We’re full of subconscious programming.  We may not know consciously what we believe.  With Theta healing, we can bypass conscious mind and ask questions of the cellular memory with muscle testing.

• Software of the soul= subconscious mind

•  It’s as simple as unlocking my own subconscious mind and debugging myself inside and out

• Formula for miracles - Audio program will shift my brain into a Theta state and removes subconscious blocks while I’m listening

• Weight Loss- Emotional clearing of subconscious, physical cleansing, strategic eating, sensible exercise

•  Time Bending- My conscious mind can change the flow of time – our minds can speed up and slow down time – we can take conscious control of an unconscious process –

•  Don’t get attached to a particular result, but be open to different outcomes – be patient and don’t expect things to happen overnight – my reality is created by my subconscious mind

You are AWESOME!

Good, Better, Best

There was a talk a little while ago by one of my church leaders named Dallin H. Oaks.  This is similar to the Simplify blog post, but I was just thinking about this today and I think many people need a reminder.

Basically what I learned from the talk is that in any given day, at any given time, we have many choices of what to do.  Many of those choices are good choices, but not better or the best things we can do with our time.  Some of those choices are better choices than the good choices, but not as good as the best choices.  The best choices are what is MOST important for you to do with your time.

I find the good choices are plentiful (like Facebook and Twitter - it's good to move my business forward and connect with friends, but it can also eat up a lot of time that I need to spend on other things).  The better choices are not as abundant (like cleaning - not fun, but needs to be done), but are still plentiful.  Yet, the BEST things I can do at any given moment take more time and effort to discover.

What are your priorities?  What are your values?  What is the MOST important (either makes the most money or can't be done another day or most valuable - the crystal balls as Rich German mentioned) RIGHT NOW?  As Robert Allen would say, the most successful people procrastinate - they just procrastinate the good and the better things and focus on the BEST first.

I realized this morning that this is something I need to strive harder to accomplish.  Being a stay-at-home mother of a busy little 14-month old boy and apartment manager take up most of my time.  It doesn't leave me much time to focus on my businesses.  I have SO much going on and not much time to do it in that I need to focus on the BEST, and once I get that accomplished focus on the next best, etc.

Because I'm not feeling well right now, the BEST thing I think I can do right now is prepare for and go to bed.  Good night.

You are AWESOME!

Wendy Robbins

                 http://www.youwealthrevolution.com/wendy 

                             www.nowheretomillionaire.com 

* are my thoughts *

People don’t know how to have the millionaire mindset or to keep the money – What ARE MY DISEMPOWERING beliefs in regards to money?  How important, on a scale of 1-10, is it that I am financially free? 

8 of her 10 questions that she delves into more in her book (image above - click on it to purchase)

1. Why am I not living up to how much money I want?   

2. Where did I pick up my disempowering beliefs?   

3. Why do you believe that?  

4. What (benefit) do I get out of my disempowering beliefs?  When I do this, I’m peeling an onion and I’m parenting myself the way I wish I had been parented.   

5. Is this belief real (Byron Katie)?   

6. Could the opposite be true?  Stick with what works and let go what doesn’t. 

7. Under what circumstances in my life was the opposite and it worked out? 

8. What would happen if I let go of my limiting beliefs?

*Think about the above before going any further because...*Thoughts and feelings lead to actions lead to results –

Tip #1: If I think negatively (or positively), say “As you wish.” – because our thoughts are our genies – say “cancel, cancel,” sortof like canceling an order at a restaraunt.  If I don't cancel, it will manifest in my life.

Tip #2: When I’m holding myself back, think to myself, “YOU GO GIRL (or guy).”  You have permission to be rich.  Think to yourself, "How do I get my message out to the most people?"  My job is not to figure out HOW but just have a big enough WHY.

Tip #3: If I feel like I’m working so hard and can’t work any harder: Outsource

 *WOW!  This was AMAZING!  She invited all of us on the call to look her up on Facebook and I'm sure the same will apply to you.  She has SO much to give and share.  We all deserve to be millionaires.  I've heard that throughout our working careers most of us will become millionaires, but the question is, how many of us will have that million at one time.  I've heard so many people say they want to marry a millionaire, which to me means they don't want to put forth the effort to do so themselves.  Many millionaires leverage their time and money and from what I hear, it almost seems easier to be a millionaire than to work 40-90 hours a week.  We are here for SO much more than to work a job, retire and die.  We are each here on this planet to make the difference in this world that only WE can make, based on our talents and interests.  I've quoted Skip Ross before and I'll quote him again, "Say YES to your potential!"*

You are AWESOME!

Natalie Ledwell

 I feel like Natalie's one of my best friends even though I've never met her.  She has such a loving heart, unbreakable spirit and positive attitude.  She's someone I'd definitely like to hang around (if she didn't live in Australia and I in USA).  She is not only a co-creator of Mind Movies (www.mindmovies.com) but she also tells a lot about herself and a struggle she went through in life and shares the answer of how to overcome any challenges you're facing in 7 weeks with her 7 Secrets to Happiness (www.mindmovies.com/7secretstohappiness/).  She is an AMAZING coach and leader to follow.  Here are some of her words she shared on You Wealth Revolution.

Focus on WHAT we want, not HOW we want it – don’t look for what I just think I am supposed to do (force fit), but go with my passion – she found something she is passionate about – though she worked hard, she felt fulfilled while she was doing the work – How is your mind recreating the vibrations? Subconscious mind stores information and through repetition, it gets ingrained – Law of Gratitude (different each day) - 

My future is NOW

You are AWESOME!

T. Harv Eker

This was the first call in You Wealth Revolution (www.youwealthrevolution.com).

Our wealth is inside of our power (the ability to act).  The only person I can rely on is myself (Do I have a person in myself to rely upon?).  We need new information for this new world.  When I start a business ask myself  if it’s not just the RIGHT VEHICLE, but it’s the RIGHT ME in the RIGHT VEHICLE.   Does this vehicle FIT me?  I need to have an area that I care about and am SO passionate about.  

T.Harv Eker started becoming successful when he realized HE had something to offer.  We need to find a vehicle that: we are passionate about, we are good at, we have natural talent.  People give us money because we solve their problems.  Money is a reward for solving problems

We have a setpoint when it comes to our bank account.  I won’t succeed until I change my programming.  My thoughts lead to feelings lead to actions lead to results.  Act “As if” and success will come automatically.

Write the chapter in my life I’ve always wanted to.  I was born to do something.  BE a success and everything I touch will turn to GOLD.

You are AWESOME!

Darius Barazandeh

Darius is the host of You Wealth Revolution and also is one of the speakers.  What is below is some of his philosophies on success and how to get there.  He wants to add value to the world as well as teaching us, through others, so we can also add value to the world.  He was an attorney, but decided he got more personal fulfillment helping others in the self improvement arena instead of law.  The below words are paraphrased words Darius spoke.  I didn't put down his whole call, but I put down the core of what he was talking about (and hopefully what he meant).

You Wealth to Darius (which he asked to all the other speakers on the calls as well) means your own purpose, passion, life.  You get something you value by serving others.

Three rules of massive transformation: 1. Discover my purpose – I’ll never get over money challenges until I discover my greatest purpose.  Most important thing is to discover our mission and resources.  We WILL have enough resources and more to give when living our purpose, 2. Don’t think that everybody has the answer.  I alone have the answer.  A good teacher helps me discover my purpose.  MY JOY is the key to my destiny.  An enlightened being realizes there is no good or bad, it just is.  Most harmony comes when I come into a state of equilibrium, 3. When I think I have to be perfect, I take away self-esteem points.  Don’t believe gurus think positively.  Until we find order, we will sabotage ourselves.  Personal development keeps us stuck inside our heads and not out LIVING our passion.  How did this negative even lead me to become the person I am today and help me?

 To find out more information and get a copy of all of the speakers, including Darius, Click Here.

You are AWESOME!

Simplify Your Life

       Today in church, we talked about simplifying our lives.  One of the leaders in my church, Dieter F. Uctdorf talked about how there are only four relationships in our lives that really matter and we need to focus our time on them, instead of so many other things that keep us busy.  Those relationships are with: 1. God, 2. Family, 3. Fellowmen and 4. Self. 

    The first three are pretty self-explanitory, in my opinion.  Uctdorf, in relationship to ourselves, mentioned that some of us can't get along with ourselves; we criticize and belittle ourselves all day long until we hate ourselves.  He's right.  I'm learning to love myself more and be kinder to myself, and it really helps in my overall attitude.  It also helps in what I am able to do because if I believe in myself, I accomplish more.

     I have also heard many times in many places the parable of the rocks.  I think Stephen R. Covey taught it in Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.  It's where you have a jar.  Beside the jar are: big rocks, little rocks and sand.  If you put the sand in first, then you can't fit everything else in the jar.  However, if you put the big rocks in first, then the little rocks, then all the sand fits as well.  The metaphor, as many of you may know, is: the big rocks are the most important things in life, the little rocks are the important but not essential things in life & the sand stands for the thingd in our life that may or may not matter but can be distractions.

     This was a good reminder to me and hopefully to you.  I know that technology (I-pods, Facebook, Twitter, TV, movies, cell phones) can be a distraction to take away time from what is really important.  It's easy to get distracted by many things and hard to focus.  Focus takes work and energy, but it's what helps us become successful in many areas.

     In conclusion, there are most important things in our lives and there are less important things in our lives.  If we can learn to focus on what's most important and cut out distractions, we can be successful in every area of life.  As Skip Ross would say, "Say Yes to your potential."

You are AWESOME!

David Wolfe

   This post is about health strategies.  He talks about many things I didn't know about.  I will just mention the highlights because it seemed like a bunch of unrelated health facts and tips, but it was very interesting.

Highlights

• If you’re drinking out of a water bottle, most likely you’re drinking estrogen..

• Many times if you’re out of focus and cloudy in your thought, you need Omega-3 fatty acids.

•  If you are fasting, it is almost more important than eating – you learn about yourself and can cleanse your body.

• When we cook, freeze or don’t eat things raw, we’re killing important nutrients.

•  Judgment and denial is what keeps people unhealthy – a form of arrogance.

•  All cancers, Athlerschlerosis, tumor. Sceriosis, Arthritis have bad calcium involved – don’t take calcium supplements – often too much calcium in body.

To follow along: www.youwealthrevolution.com/david

You are AWESOME!

Marci Shimoff

     Marci mainly talks about being happy.  She mentions how it has to come from within.  She also discusses how others are attracted to us when we are happy and that the stronger force always wins - the most positive and happy or the most negative and unhappy.  She wrote a book about not having a reason for being happy(Happy for No Reason: 7 Steps to Being Happy from the Inside Out) and she mentions that there is such a freedom in not having a reason to be happy.

     There is a Happiness Set-point - most important in life - it is why we want anything - we just go back to this automatically -we can reset it by: Making up our minds to br like Teflon for negatives and velcro for the positive - it takes 20 seconds for my mind to discover/remember to take it in.  Keep a gratitude and success journal and SAVOR my successes.  We need to have a toolbox of energy-psychology techniques.

     Fringe Benefits of being happy:

1. Healthier - 1/3 less likely to be sick

2. Live longer - 9 years longer

3. Greater fulfillment in relationships

4. Greater fulfillment in career

5. Make a million dollars more over the course of their lifetime

     She mentions in her book twenty-one happiness techniques but puts them into 7 main areas and suggests we start with our weakest link.  She compares the seven main areas to a house:

1. Foundation - taking responsibility for my happiness "I'll be happy when..." - where are you giving away my happiness?

2. Roof - Living an inspired life - purpose and passion

3. Garden - who do I surround myself with?  Toxic people or helping people

Four cornerstones: 4. mind(thoughts), 5. heart(greater sense of love), 6. body(cells, etc.) &7. soul(spirituality)

     A Couple of Happiness Techniques

1.Heart Rythmn Coherance: Heart focus - put hand over heart, then imagine breath is coming in and out through  my heart - feel the care and appreciation that I have had on a moment when I feel a lot of gratitude - do this once a day or once an hour

2. Marci's favorite technique - Ho-oh-pohno-pohno  - "I'm sorry, I forgive you, thank you, I love you" - keep saying this over and over.  Experience this to anyone you feel anger or resentment toward.  She told a couple of stories relating to this technique, but the shorter of the two is: Dalai Llama was talking to a Tibetan Buddist monk who was being tortured in a prison and The Dalai Llama asked this man, “When did you feel like you were in the most danger?”  The monk said, “When I stopped feeling compassion toward the prison guards.”

     She ended with this very powerful quote:  “When there is light in the soul, there will be beauty in the person.  When there is beauty in the person, there will be harmony in the house.  When there is harmony in the house, there will be order in the nation.  When there is order in the nation, there will be peace in the world.”  - Chinese Proverb

Thanx 4 your energy!

Gratitude

 
      On this Thanksgiving day, on a day that is NOT a speed bump on the way to Christmas, I feel it appropriate to discuss gratitude.  To me, from what I've learned, gratitude is the ultimate way of giving back and being on the best vibration to be able to receive as well.  Gratitude is what we can give to others, God/the Universe for all that they have done for us.  Gratitude can also be a way for us to be kind to ourselves and be our own best friend.  Gratitude is something every person can give, no matter how little money or time you feel you have.  Gratitude can only multiply what we have into something more.
     Please, whether as a comment or in your journal, write what you're grateful for today, or someday SOON.  Don't put this exercise off because it is SO very important for you.  I'm going to write some of the things I'm grateful for here (in no particular order of importance):

• My energy, even when I don't get enough sleep
• My healthy body
• My eyes and the fact that they see
• My ears and that they hear
• My hands and that they can write, type, touch, feel, grasp, pull, pick, wash and many other things
• My freedoms that I enjoy
• My strength
• My husband and that he goes to work, even when he doesn't feel like it
• My baby
• My baby's laughter
• My baby's smile
• My baby's curiosity (sometimes)
• My legs and that I can walk
• I have the opportunity to volunteer
• I can make money doing something I love
• I can love others
• I can feel others' love for me
• Food
• Clothing
• Shelter
• Heater in winter and air conditioning in summer
• I can be a stay-at-home mom to watch my baby grow up
• Family
• Friends
• Facebook so I can keep in touch with family and friends
• Dreams
• Hope
• Charity
• Faith
• Religion and how it can lead me to God if I do my part
• Business and how it means we don't have to all work jobs if we don't want to
• Baby gate so I can cook and clean and still have my baby see me
• Songs and music in general
• Radio/tapes/CD/MP3s
• Water
• Sign Language
• Computer
• Internet
• Wikipedia
• Google
• Yahoo
• Inspirational movies and books
• Time - I have 24 hours a day to do what's most important to me

I could go on all night, but I won't.  I'm sure you have some of these and some of these you don't, but I'm also sure you have some things as well that are NOT on this list.  Feel free to share all or some of those with me.
Thanx 4 your energy!

Children - looking at life through their eyes

  

      If you can't get the video to work, click here and you can at least hear his laugh

     I can learn SO much from my little boy!  He's SO happy most of the time and he can't walk (without help) or talk (much).  He doesn't drive a fancy car (he'd better not be driving for another 14 years!) or have a high-paying job (his only job right now is learning and growing).  He doesn't have a lot of stuff (ya know, RVs, ATVs, Kayaks, Boats) or status, but he's just happy.
    This morning, I took him out in the snow (don't worry, he had his snow suit on) and he wasn't quite sure what to make of the snow at first, but then he was having fun watching mommy and others, crawling around in the snow, making a snow angel (it worked out well because I helped him and picked him up so there were no other tracks), watching a neighbor shovel the snow and just BEING outside.  He got cold, but he didn't even want to go inside.  I just can't wait until Christmas because, like the song says, "I Wanna See Christmas Through Your Eyes (If interested in purchasing the CD, Gloria Estefan - Greatest Hits)."  I know he doesn't know a lot, but he sure knows a LOT more than he did last year at this time.
     Also, this morning at breakfast (watch the video above), he just started laughing.  He still drinks breast milk, so I haven't given him much cow's milk, but this morning I thought I'd try. He liked it for a little while, then he decided he was done with it, so he pushed it away.  I also offered him water with the meal.  He was done with the water, too, so, they were like bumper cars, and when I started saying whatever it was I said on the video, he just started laughing like crazy.  I never know what will get my boy laughing because he just laughs at the silliest things (I guess they're silly to him, too).  I'll just say something like "Big burpie" or "Eeew, yucky!" and he will just start laughing and laughing.
     If only we could be that carefree....but why can't we?!  We've all heard of the book, "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff"  - maybe it's time we all become carefree like children.  I don't know if this relates, but maybe that's one of the things Christ was talking about when He invited us all to become like little children.  He knows that we adults stress over way too much stuff that doesn't really matter.
     I'm not an advocate for not taking responsibility for what you need to do (especially in this busy time of year), but I AM an advocate of taking advantage of the small opportunities to play with your child (or children).  I don't know what the weather is like where you are, but maybe, just play outside in the snow (or sunshine or rain) for a few minutes and enjoy the play as much as your child (or children) does (or do).
     Take time to ENJOY LIFE!

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John Assaraf - part two

Video 1 prior to Winning the Mind Game Webinar:  What’s my story?  What do I tell my self about why I’m not making money?

Video 2 prior to webinar: The Drug Addiction – Hopeium – people are hoping and praying to get out of their situation, but aren’t doing anything – we need to feel good about money, have the right thoughts, and do the right actions in the right order –

Video 3: Am I interested or committed to become a millionaire – interest, I’ll do what’s convenient and make excuses – when committed, think about how you can do and do what I need to do to make it happen

Webinar Highlights

• Where did my programming come from?

• "I share with you my lifestyle with you not to impress you but impress UPON you that if you follow what I’m going to suggest, you can have the lifestyle you want to do as well and that YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO HAVE IT ALL."

• You will never earn more than your financial self-esteem allows you to

• Whatever is impressed in the subconscious mind IMMEDIATELY takes place can act upon it.

• Implicit belief – deep inside the subconscious mind – go to the cause of thoughts/feelings/beliefs, if I want to change results, it’s not enough to just go to seminar or read book – need to do in right order neurocircuits of brain to retrain

•   Explicit belief – Yea, I’ve heard that before – based on your belief

• New slogan – when you believe it in my mind, that’s when I’ll see

•  I need to alter the financial blueprint/map/thermostat, so I once and for all program my subconscious mind so I can have a first-class lifestyle

•  A belief is a neuro network to make my brain a reality – 1 billion neuro networks a seconds – I have unbelievable opportunity to change my subconscious mind- We can change our brain to change our lives

• Create the most powerful vision that I really want to make – how much do I really want to make? – if I don’t put conscious and subconscious mind into alignment – I need to be a congruent person in thoughts and in action – Neuro-Resinence – I need to begin a daily innersize program to change thoughts

• I NEED to change the system in my brain if I want to change my actions

•  There are five helps:

1.     Do it yourself option – clarity of vision of what I need to do

2.     Beliefs I need to have about myself in order to achieve this goal

3.     Write down the daily habits I need to apply (doing highest income and impact producing activities)

4.     Develop positive precision affirmations

5.     Affirmations need to be in at least Alpha brain wave

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Baeth Davis

You Wealth – Balance – beyond hierarchy of needs to trandescension – making a contribution to others – incredible sense of satisfaction – we need to love the person in the mirror – stand in our truth and live courageously – love is the true love and from self-love, we can give to others – what am I here to do so my presence is modeling consciousness - It’s not about the to do list, but being present and in the moment – when you help many people with what they need, you get what you need – give to others and give credit and where credit is due.

 Highlights of the call:

• Baeth was suicidal - a friend said that being suicidal is selfish and Baeth needs a hobby/ to serve others

• What are my THREE PIVOTAL(life-changing, look at things differently) MOMENTS to date?

• There’s great power in determining what my standards are

•  I have to really get square with myself and determine that I HAVE to live my life purpose.

•  When I’m following my life purpose, there’s a sense of certainty, of knowing, even if I have fear – I just somehow know that’s where I need to be.

•  Begin to question EVERYTHING I believe.

•  I’m responsible for EVERYTHING I’ve done wrong or right – I’m responsible for my thoughts, feelings, actions.  I CAN control a response I make.

•  When the mission and the purpose MUST come first before I make money – self-esteem often puts people out so they don't live their passions.

•  What legacy do I want to I leave after I die?  Baeth’s is to stop illeteracy

•  Criteria to help discover passion                                                                                                        1. Stop saying, “I don’t know” -it is often a cop-out, 2. Write down three hobbies I’m really PASSIONATE about?  Put in my calendar or maybe make money with this and 3. If I did know what my mission was, what would I hope would be different when I die?

•  Find out my life’s purpose and make a decision to follow it – everyday, in everything I do

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Symeon Rodger

 This was AMAZING stuff about how your body and physical health can help your life.  It certainly helped me think differently about what I'm doing and not doing in my life.   If you don't struggle with health issues and have excellent health, you can skip this post.  However, if you want to live a more healthy life

Symeon Martial Arts expert, Chinese health/medicine system, a University in Montreal - teaches in English and French, Author 5 Pillars of Life and Rock Solid Tranquility, proficient in many languages, former intelligence officer in the Canadian Government and Father of three children.

You Wealth – without fundamental wealth within ourselves, the other wealth doesn’t matter – resilience=ability to effortlessly withstand and bounce back from whatever occurs – we need to know how to be aware of our bodies

7 Deadly Spirals of Disease - The body falls apart because aren't exercising our body in the following ways

1. Spine – if you don’t take spine through it’s full range of motion on a regular basis, your mind doesn’t work well and the energy circulation doesn’t work well.

2. Tendon lines are what causes tension and flexion – when I don’t take these through their full range of motion, I’m more likely to get an accident – also atrophy and gain more weight and have less mobility

3. Fascia – layer of tissue below skin – wraps muscles – like body’s saran wrap – begin to fill with fat when not taking care of myself – critical role in assures my posture – crystalline structures respond to energy miridians – conduct light – communicated to cells – diaphragms are fascia – we have 3 – purpose is to hold organs in place – my organs can fall out of place – if fascia degrades, we are more susceptible to disease.

4. Bone marrow- skeleton itself acts as an endocrine gland (metabolizes sugar) – manufactures blood cells – any compromise in quantity or quality of blood cells – less oxygen to cells, can move less, don’t use range of motion, begins a circle – intelligence is throughout body (like in the gut)

5. Joints – energy depends on the health of my joints for its flow – loose oxygen and vitality

6. Breathing – Try breathing with shoulders up and breathe through the chest then try putting my thumb on the navel – let the shoulders relax and breathe near the navel – also focus on breathing front to back like my middle is an inner tube – allows energy to drop lower, makes for more positive emotions

7. Posture – ideal posture: feet to shoulder width, shoulders down, relax abdomen and unlock pelvis and allow it to drop mid-range, imagine my head is hanging by a thread to heaven

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